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TAG482's avatar

Ran out of trust. Ran out of runway. Same patterns repeating & worsening for 6 years. There’s just a point where even if my husband did suddenly figure this out, and he won’t, it’s just too late. We actually read your book together and his takeaway was “I hate that guy.” I thought, Matthew’s a guy who puts it so plainly, so simply, that my husband will certainly understand and change. Nope. And I’m out of trust. Out of time. Out of runway. I’d have done anything to stay married to him, I did do everything, and I’m out. Out. I love him, I actually feel bad for him, but I’m out. Enough. Thank you for your work.

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Amy Goldbeck's avatar

I appreciate how you spotlight the everyday occurrences that represent the root of it all: most of us don't learn what healthy relationship skills are before going into marriage or relationships. Thank you for opening the dialogue through your personal examples, insights and reflections.

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