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Ally Hamilton's avatar

I genuinely loved this. It’s so refreshing to hear these thoughts from a male perspective, I’ve been waiting for this. So glad to meet you, looking forward to reading more of your writing. Also, in one of the posts you said something about people who are in a “sort of fucky” relationship and the world needs more of this accurate reporting.

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Gaspar J Fasulo's avatar

I have noticed time after time, in every discourse, conversation or any exchange of information regarding the behavior of human beings, that the mention of conditioning never is expressed. It is as if people do not understand that conditioning is the only method though which behavior is developed and demonstrated. In fact, every event, every association, every word spoken is an element of conditioning regardless of how small or seemingly insignificant it may seem. Conditioning is the only reason why human beings behave as they do regardless again of the seemingly insignificance of the event. Little boys, from the very youngest of ages, are given trucks, balls, guns and many other "masculine" toys while girls are treated with delicacy and given dolls, dollhouses, and many "feminine" toys. Girls are trained to be "girls" and boys are trained to be "boys". Boys are trained to be aggressive and competitive, and girls are trained to be submissive and cooperative. Children are imitative and a reflection of their training by their parents or caregivers. All over this planet the great majority of those who are influential are as incompetent as they could possibly be. The genetic structure has been used to explain behavior but only through the most incompetent of understandings. The biological designation of what is described here is an expression of an ignorance of the significance of conditioning and the ignorance of instilled intellectual growth of very nearly every human on this planet. The concept of Free Will is probably the most damaging concept to ever be passed down from parent to child and it is found in every culture on this planet. Human beings are being held responsible for their actions while the rest of animal life is not. It is the only "thing" that is considered free. Everything else has initiation, motivation and influence. While humans are initiated, motivated and influenced to behave as they do, they are still considered the source of their behavior and as a result, justice (same as revenge) is sought, while cooperation and compromise are not considered as important. Thus, we are stuck in the constant revenge cycle of producing behavior and punishing the same behavior. Divorce, jail, prisons, fines, and every other punishment has been the history of the human social animal for thousands of years. It is only in the last several decades that answers to the problems of this human condition have been offered. They have been rejected many times by the most incompetent of judgements.... namely legal systems and the religious systems. The answers lay in the methods of science applied to the social scheme. The principles of human behavior have been available for many years but, unfortunately for societies all over the world, they are not taken seriously.

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