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Mary Lee's avatar

I absolutely love Matthew’s posts! I cried the first time I listened to one of his podcasts. It was like finally someone gets what I’ve been trying to say to my husband. Hearing the story of how his wife left him after her Dad died is exactly what I did with my husband and almost the same amount of time had passed… like 18 months. Didn’t at the time know anything about Matthew’s posts. It’s good to see a good quality man stand up and say to these men, “hey there’s a huge issue here.” I even let my husband listen to the podcast and he had a blank stare. Nothing got through to him. I continued about 14 times going back over and over and over again. I know……The definition of insanity is continuing to do the same thing over and over and expecting different results- Albert Einstein

25 years together and 3 kids. I’m now 44. My heart still breaks that someone could not care after so many years together. I’m not an angel, but I’m in therapy working on myself and admitting my wrongs. I do know that I’m gonna be one bada$$

Love to all y’all

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Kari's avatar

I’ve been reading your stuff (❤️) for a couple of years now. You’ve been trying to get men to understand for a while now. Are you as frustrated as the other half of the population yet? Lol

The emotional, psychological, financial, domestic labor, sexual and physical abuse are control and power mechanisms to keep women serving at the whims of dudes and their pleasure. They benefit from it. I know you have changed some hearts and minds on the matter.

Serious question, do you have plans to write and call it what it is - abuse?

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