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Hi. I wrote a book called This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships (HarperOne), which was first published in 2022. I hope some of you will want to read it. It is currently available in six languages and counting.

This book encompasses many of the ideas and the writing voice found on my original blog, Must Be This Tall to Ride. I tried to combine them with the ideas that I’ve developed in my relationship coaching work over the past few years to create something fresh and original.

The result is a book that is helping people think about and show up more effectively in their relationships for their partners, families, and themselves. This might sound like an asshole thing to write, but I would want to buy and read this book. And that was an important litmus test for me throughout the writing process. If I’d read it 15 years ago, I don’t believe I’d be divorced today.

It has heart, humor, and practical lessons to help people more effectively navigate relationship conflict. The book description calls it a “thoughtful, down-to-earth, contemporary guide to help partners identify and address relationship-killing behavior patterns in their own lives.”

Good people can be bad at relationships.

That was the story of my failed marriage. Maybe it’s the same story for some of you. But it doesn’t have to be.

Order Your Copy of This Is How Your Marriage Ends Today

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Note: The book has so far also been translated and published in German, Italian, Dutch, and soon to be Arabic, if you prefer those languages to English.