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On Men Who Don't Like Women
This isn't about sex, the activity. It's about sex, the biological designation.
Sep 10
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Matthew Fray
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A Quick Relationship Lesson from Ben Affleck
Not communicating true things you think and feel may not be as 'bad' as lying, but it's probably just as harmful
Sep 5
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Matthew Fray
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August 2024
The Merits of Canceling a Date Because the Other Person is 10 Minutes Late
Maybe a little bit of merciless pruning is just what the doctor ordered.
Aug 20
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Matthew Fray
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Labeling Married Women as Emotionally Manipulative, Nagging Assholes
Is that who you married, guys? An asshole who hid it from you all of this time?
Aug 16
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Matthew Fray
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July 2024
Stop Promising Your Sad and Angry Partner That You’re Going to Change
Until you learn WHY you do whatever is hurting them in the first place.
Jul 24
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Matthew Fray
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Are Relationships Supposed to be Hard?
No. (And, yes.)
Jul 11
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Matthew Fray
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Are Relationships Supposed to be Hard?
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Join Our New Relationship Support & Coaching Group
Become a monthly member and attend as many weekly 90-minute meetings as you are able to.
Jul 8
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Matthew Fray
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June 2024
The Weight of Loneliness
How might your partner's sense of loneliness, or your own, be weighing down your most critical relationships?
Jun 19
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Matthew Fray
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How to Not be Defensive with Your Relationship Partner
Defensiveness is among the most common and damaging forms of toxic communication patterns.
Jun 13
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Matthew Fray
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May 2024
Hey Dads: Don’t Ruin Mother’s Day for Your Wives
Take steps to protect your kids' mother from feeling invisible and unappreciated on Mother's Day (and always if you want to be awesome about it)
May 9
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Matthew Fray
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Hey Dads: Don’t Ruin Mother’s Day for Your Wives
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March 2024
What Evidence Do You Leave Your Loved Ones?
Everything you say and do, whether you're aware of it or not, is a piece of evidence for your spouse or partner indicating how trustworthy you are.
Mar 12
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Matthew Fray
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What Evidence Do You Leave Your Loved Ones?
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January 2024
What's Brewing for 2024 & Beyond
Please help me find young adults to interview for my new book project
Jan 30
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Matthew Fray
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