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On Men Who Don't Like Women
This isn't about sex, the activity. It's about sex, the biological designation.
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Matthew Fray
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A Quick Relationship Lesson from Ben Affleck
Not communicating true things you think and feel may not be as 'bad' as lying, but it's probably just as harmful
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Matthew Fray
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August 2024

The Merits of Canceling a Date Because the Other Person is 10 Minutes Late
Maybe a little bit of merciless pruning is just what the doctor ordered.
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Matthew Fray
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Labeling Married Women as Emotionally Manipulative, Nagging Assholes
Is that who you married, guys? An asshole who hid it from you all of this time?
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Matthew Fray
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July 2024

Stop Promising Your Sad and Angry Partner That You’re Going to Change
Until you learn WHY you do whatever is hurting them in the first place.
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Matthew Fray
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Are Relationships Supposed to be Hard?
No. (And, yes.)
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Matthew Fray
Join Our New Relationship Support & Coaching Group
Become a monthly member and attend as many weekly 90-minute meetings as you are able to.
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Matthew Fray

June 2024

The Weight of Loneliness
How might your partner's sense of loneliness, or your own, be weighing down your most critical relationships?
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Matthew Fray
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How to Not be Defensive with Your Relationship Partner
Defensiveness is among the most common and damaging forms of toxic communication patterns.
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Matthew Fray
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May 2024

March 2024

January 2024

What's Brewing for 2024 & Beyond
Please help me find young adults to interview for my new book project
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Matthew Fray
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